<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314</id><updated>2010-06-22T16:45:15.069-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ruffles &amp; Ridges</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>299</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-178808733167335316</id><published>2010-06-18T21:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-18T21:31:07.567-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Valedictorian</title><summary type='text'>
Since I began teaching in the fall of 2008, the credentials analyst for my school district has reminded me multiple times that according to the No Child Left Behind (NCLB) act of 2001 I need to have a certain number of college credits to be considered "Highly Qualified" so that I can teach in a specific subject matter.  Apparently, having earned a bachelor's degree in psychology, and currently </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/178808733167335316/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=178808733167335316&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/178808733167335316'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/178808733167335316'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2010/06/valedictorian.html' title='Valedictorian'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/TBwaLm2CMxI/AAAAAAAAAzg/J8qoxGzS7Ak/s72-c/DSCN8647.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-6959703967812031632</id><published>2010-04-13T21:48:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-13T21:48:02.418-07:00</updated><title type='text'>*blink* shiny! *blink* ooooh! *blink* what?</title><summary type='text'>
I can't count how many days of spring break I spent looking at a blinking cursor.  I want to post, I even attempt to post, but for some reason this bout of writer's block has lasted longer than most.

I miss blogging regularly.  I miss sitting down in front of my computer and not having any idea what I was going to write about, yet typing until it started to flow.  Once the words started coming,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/6959703967812031632/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=6959703967812031632&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6959703967812031632'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6959703967812031632'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2010/04/blink-shiny-blink-ooooh-blink-what.html' title='*blink* shiny! *blink* ooooh! *blink* what?'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/S8VFrExYXPI/AAAAAAAAAzU/_egh3G2y9AQ/s72-c/luxeed_keyboard.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1639311195266483119</id><published>2010-03-13T21:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-13T21:36:54.340-08:00</updated><title type='text'>O Hai</title><summary type='text'>
Imagine my surprise this morning when I logged into my blog to add a link and noticed that my latest post was dated 2009.  I was shocked.  2009!  That is SO last year!

How has this happened?  How could so much time have passed?  I'm an English teacher who forces my students to write in a journal every day, and yet I can't seem to post once in two and a half months.  That can't be right.

It </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1639311195266483119/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1639311195266483119&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1639311195266483119'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1639311195266483119'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2010/03/o-hai.html' title='O Hai'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/S5x1sGE_-3I/AAAAAAAAAy0/pDyugx5dh7M/s72-c/o+hai.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-5608801231765388252</id><published>2009-12-31T18:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-31T18:20:58.136-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Now</title><summary type='text'>

At a time when many people are waxing nostalgic, writing blogs about the past year, or creating top ten lists and resolutions, I feel kinda silly writing the obligatory New Year's Eve post.

I could easily write about what a wonderful year it has been, but I feel I've already done that.  If you want to read about all the great things that have happened in my life over the last year, you could </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/5608801231765388252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=5608801231765388252&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/5608801231765388252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/5608801231765388252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/12/now.html' title='Now'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/Sz1b3XnAmaI/AAAAAAAAAyE/l6nNkIDBpHg/s72-c/top+hat.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1656075176528659355</id><published>2009-12-24T21:12:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-24T21:12:30.041-08:00</updated><title type='text'>'Tis The Season</title><summary type='text'>


Stuck somewhere between my heart and my head is a Christmas post.  It has been bouncing back and forth, working itself out, attempting to form coherent ideas and sentences for the last week or so.

I feel a bit like the Grinch this year... not the beginning of the movie grumpy Grinch, but the end of the movie Grinch after his heart has grown three times its original size.  It feels like it has</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1656075176528659355/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1656075176528659355&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1656075176528659355'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1656075176528659355'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/12/tis-season.html' title='&apos;Tis The Season'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SzQ_z8lal7I/AAAAAAAAAx0/w7SfgVoTv3E/s72-c/tree+04+crop.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-3785655854670858909</id><published>2009-12-18T20:48:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T20:54:42.467-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Zombie Love</title><summary type='text'>


I know it sounds silly, but having the opportunity to be a zombie last Sunday night was one of the highlights of my life.

Having heard a "rumor" early Sunday morning about a zombie flash mob happening after close at Dickens, I quickly filed it away under "amusing notes for the day," and didn't really think much of it.  Throughout the day I really didn't hear anything else, and for the most </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/3785655854670858909/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=3785655854670858909&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3785655854670858909'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3785655854670858909'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/12/zombie-love.html' title='Zombie Love'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SycDKBFbrvI/AAAAAAAAAxg/42k-wknlE-Q/s72-c/zombies+01.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-3116559498081540798</id><published>2009-12-04T18:44:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-04T18:44:51.337-08:00</updated><title type='text'>CSB to the Rescue</title><summary type='text'>

It is Friday.
I came home to all kinds of amazing and wonderful...
But just now, I noticed the above... even though I've been sitting next to it for a couple of hours now.
It is the best laugh I've had all day.
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I always assumed that my brother and I, if either one of us were to have kids, would raise our kids together. 

Some years ago, Janet showed up, and was instantly a part of our family.  She was a younger, more cynical, more evil version of me... someone I definitely wanted to be friends with.  Who else can say that about their sister in law?! 

She stuck around for a while, and eventually she </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/381797810210393813/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=381797810210393813&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/381797810210393813'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/381797810210393813'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/12/gone-again.html' title='Gone Again'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/Sxc7xTQkARI/AAAAAAAAAxQ/-6RSB5xVQ0M/s72-c/thanksgiving+cousins.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-8326075548039907304</id><published>2009-11-30T19:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-30T20:02:01.774-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Crossing the Finish Line</title><summary type='text'>
  
 The last day of November.
The last day of Thanksgiving break.

Somehow I managed to do *most* of the "extra" work I planned to do over the break today.  I can't say that I'm entirely thrilled with my November posts, but I can say that I posted something every day for 30 days in a row... for the third year in a row.  Not so shabby.  Next year, I'll do better... or, when I realize that I'm not</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/8326075548039907304/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=8326075548039907304&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8326075548039907304'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8326075548039907304'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/crossing-finish-line.html' title='Crossing the Finish Line'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SxSU9S6PLBI/AAAAAAAAAxI/euhWlfbBG7Y/s72-c/nablofinish.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-7021292896744604797</id><published>2009-11-29T20:09:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-29T20:11:30.733-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Homework</title><summary type='text'> 
I have spent all day sitting in this chair... in front of the computer... surrounded by books... writing a paper ... wondering if I have what it takes to make it through this program.

Each month as a new class starts, I think, "okay, if I can just make it through this one, next month will be easier.  I'll have less going on, and it will be easier to focus... so just get through this one."  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/7021292896744604797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=7021292896744604797&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/7021292896744604797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/7021292896744604797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/i-have-spent-all-day-sitting-in-this.html' title='Homework'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SxNCm58GezI/AAAAAAAAAxA/1KIevaJ_kkE/s72-c/Hard+Work.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-3493177637736780244</id><published>2009-11-28T21:17:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-28T21:17:14.808-08:00</updated><title type='text'>zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz</title><summary type='text'>Great day, although it somehow managed to get hot inside the Cow Palace.  A warm day in San Francisco at the end of November.  I never thought I'd see so many hot sweaty people in the streets of downtown London... in the winter.  It was kind of amusing.

Tomorrow I do homework.

And, maybe write a decent blog. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/3493177637736780244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=3493177637736780244&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3493177637736780244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3493177637736780244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.html' title='zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1131829072979749362</id><published>2009-11-27T21:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-27T21:04:27.725-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Playing Dress-Up</title><summary type='text'>There is something about dressing up in Victorian era clothing that seems to bring out the chivalrous side of the guys.  Give him a hat, vest, some gloves, cloak, or cane (and in some cases all of it together), and the gentleman who is in there year-round comes to the surface.

I really do love the Dickens Fair.  I have several blogs about it bubbling around in my brain.  But, tonight I am tired,</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1131829072979749362/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1131829072979749362&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1131829072979749362'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1131829072979749362'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/playing-dress-up.html' title='Playing Dress-Up'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-3857863073978973572</id><published>2009-11-26T21:50:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T21:55:23.331-08:00</updated><title type='text'>PSA: Fire Safety (or: How Giddy Tried to Ruin Thanksgiving)</title><summary type='text'>
I just wanted to watch survivor and finish my glass of wine!  Honestly I did.... that was the plan.  That and to start the lovely fire that CSB left ready to go in the fireplace.

Dinner was wonderful, dessert was lovely, dishes were all washed, and the leftovers tucked away for tomorrow.  CSB decided to run one more errand for the night, tying up a loose end for Dickens Fair this weekend, and I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/3857863073978973572/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=3857863073978973572&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3857863073978973572'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3857863073978973572'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/psa-fire-safety-or-how-giddy-tried-to.html' title='PSA: Fire Safety (or: How Giddy Tried to Ruin Thanksgiving)'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/Sw9oN1AoEjI/AAAAAAAAAw4/sSV418Q_Wi4/s72-c/fire_safety.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1498774617019759989</id><published>2009-11-25T22:23:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-26T08:10:19.464-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My First Thanksgiving</title><summary type='text'>

Tomorrow will be the very first time I have ever hosted Thanksgiving dinner in my home.  I am looking forward to it so much more than I ever thought I would.

Not that the thought had never crossed my mind.  I knew that someday it would be my turn,  I just figured that it would be once my parents were quite a bit older.  But, this year, CSB came up with the idea of having dinner here, with my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1498774617019759989/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1498774617019759989&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1498774617019759989'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1498774617019759989'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/my-first-thanksgiving.html' title='My First Thanksgiving'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/Sw4Zvvs3IfI/AAAAAAAAAws/H3Rx0dOqUgg/s72-c/cute+turkey+avatar.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-3946327581234559089</id><published>2009-11-24T20:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-24T20:28:07.906-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How Did That Happen?</title><summary type='text'>

I nearly forgot about posting today.  I don't know if that is a good sign or a bad sign.  I didn't spend all day with that little buzz in the back of my head harassing me about posting, yet, if one of the goals here was to create a "habit" of posting (they say it takes 21 days to create a "habit"... not sure who "they" are, but I'm sure they are important, and probably smart), one would think </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/3946327581234559089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=3946327581234559089&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3946327581234559089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/3946327581234559089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/how-did-that-happen.html' title='How Did That Happen?'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwyyGRCjYDI/AAAAAAAAAwc/hGvuvM6oKu8/s72-c/butterfly+clock.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-6013589090816105634</id><published>2009-11-23T20:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-23T20:08:03.164-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Shopping!</title><summary type='text'>

I started my Christmas shopping today.... this may be a record.  I don't think I've ever started this early.

Every year I plan to start my shopping before Thanksgiving.  Between work and Dickens Fair, I end up so busy that I am running around at the last minute doing all my shopping.  This year won't be much different, but I did buy a couple of things today, and I feel slightly better for </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/6013589090816105634/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=6013589090816105634&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6013589090816105634'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6013589090816105634'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/i-started-my-christmas-shopping-today.html' title='Shopping!'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwtZC1iJahI/AAAAAAAAAwU/icfwqbEsJp4/s72-c/gifts.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-8995864526770071837</id><published>2009-11-22T15:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-22T15:58:12.561-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Lazy Sunday</title><summary type='text'>

When I was young, I didn't really think I was much of a "family" person.  I was somewhat solitary, hiding away in my bedroom, burying myself in books and music, avoiding all things social and interactive.

This morning, I woke up to my brother and nephew (who are visiting from Indiana) already up and lounging on the couch, CSB in the kitchen making coffee, and not long after my first sip the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/8995864526770071837/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=8995864526770071837&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8995864526770071837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8995864526770071837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/lazy-sunday.html' title='Lazy Sunday'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwnP5bQ7kXI/AAAAAAAAAwM/RhcnPvhP46o/s72-c/roaring-fire_657x600.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-4405990843980015260</id><published>2009-11-21T13:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-21T13:04:49.888-08:00</updated><title type='text'>At The Beginning</title><summary type='text'>

Here I am, first day of Thanksgiving break... ShortBus and his cousin destroying playing in ShortBus's room, my brother watching football on the couch, me puttering around the house putting away faire stuff that has been sitting out, cutting up random veggies for the boys to snack on, and cooking up some hot dogs for lunch (I knew those dogs would come in handy at some point). 

Savoring the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/4405990843980015260/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=4405990843980015260&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/4405990843980015260'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/4405990843980015260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/at-beginning.html' title='At The Beginning'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwhRNw_7ASI/AAAAAAAAAwE/p98-NFuQkpg/s72-c/lunchtime+01.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-8084156752507623737</id><published>2009-11-20T21:08:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-20T21:08:03.060-08:00</updated><title type='text'>About the Sex (Sorry Mom)</title><summary type='text'>
Yesterday, I went to the salon for my usual cut and color.  I have been going to the same place for several years and Heather always does a brilliant job. 

As I was sitting in the chair, waiting for the color to set and filling in a crossword puzzle on my iTouch, I happened to overhear a conversation between the stylist and her client in the chair next to me.  They were discussing the fact that</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/8084156752507623737/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=8084156752507623737&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8084156752507623737'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8084156752507623737'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/about-sex-sorry-mom.html' title='About the Sex (Sorry Mom)'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/Swd1NSiE8QI/AAAAAAAAAv8/0OLQCVv2GZo/s72-c/marriage.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-6287537421410896547</id><published>2009-11-19T19:37:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-19T19:38:28.006-08:00</updated><title type='text'>High School Drama</title><summary type='text'>

"One day I feel I'm on top of the world
And the next it's falling in on me
I can get back on
I can get back on
One day I feel I'm ahead of the wheel,
And the next it's rolling over me
I can get back on
I can get back on"
                                                     (from "Far Cry" by Rush)
A couple of weeks ago I was told that I needed to change the textbooks for my classes.  At the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/6287537421410896547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=6287537421410896547&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6287537421410896547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/6287537421410896547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/high-school-drama.html' title='High School Drama'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwYOkni_dkI/AAAAAAAAAv0/Ui3nzV9zGf4/s72-c/Sisyphus.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-8659972056353499790</id><published>2009-11-18T16:43:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-18T16:43:05.293-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Wordless Wednesday</title><summary type='text'>

Guess who's home for the holiday?!? 
Hooray!  Can't wait to see my brother &amp; nephew!
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/8659972056353499790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=8659972056353499790&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8659972056353499790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8659972056353499790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/wordless-wednesday.html' title='Wordless Wednesday'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwSTuhlItpI/AAAAAAAAAvk/TI03bnIT7Ao/s72-c/DSCN0699.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-8564192448277843040</id><published>2009-11-17T22:13:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T22:13:47.035-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Another Year</title><summary type='text'>
Today is CSB's birthday.  (and once again, I say Happy Birthday!)

So, yes, I made a nice dinner, we had yummy chocolate birthday cake, and enjoyed a bottle of wine.  And, as I reflect on another year racing by, I realize that each year we have spent together has been better than the last.  Every day we have the opportunity to spend together is better than the the one before.  I feel so </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/8564192448277843040/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=8564192448277843040&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8564192448277843040'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/8564192448277843040'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/another-year.html' title='Another Year'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwOP3-Yx8ZI/AAAAAAAAAvc/o4h4wtMh6cA/s72-c/birthday+01.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1497137576412718771</id><published>2009-11-16T22:03:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T22:03:59.690-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Things That Matter</title><summary type='text'>We had a wonderful weekend and I promise to write glowing reviews very soon.

It amazes me every year how the plans for CSB's birthday (which is actually tomorrow) seem to come together, then work out even better than I ever could have imagined.

This year the surprise twist:  wine tasting in a Master Sommelier's personal wine cellar.

I have so much to say about how spectacular our weekend was.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1497137576412718771/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1497137576412718771&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1497137576412718771'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1497137576412718771'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/things-that-matter.html' title='The Things That Matter'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-1277217626393940896</id><published>2009-11-15T10:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T08:35:53.106-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Leave a Message</title><summary type='text'>

Giddy can't come to the computer right now... she's busy enjoying a day at the ocean with CSB.

Please leave a message after the post...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/1277217626393940896/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=1277217626393940896&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1277217626393940896'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/1277217626393940896'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/leave-message.html' title='Leave a Message'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_HEgnDdxt_5o/SwF_S5-vfwI/AAAAAAAAAvM/SedqExx2tRE/s72-c/landis+01.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2317950598475949314.post-5162109337807497750</id><published>2009-11-14T22:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-14T22:41:09.100-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A Dickensian Christmas</title><summary type='text'>

If you haven't done this you should.  It is amazing and wonderful and magical... and exactly what getting in the christmas spirit is all about.

I'll be there.. in all my Victorian finery.  Make time for it...  I promise, it will be worth your while.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/feeds/5162109337807497750/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2317950598475949314&amp;postID=5162109337807497750&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/5162109337807497750'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2317950598475949314/posts/default/5162109337807497750'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.rufflesandridges.com/2009/11/dickensian-christmas.html' title='A Dickensian Christmas'/><author><name>Giddy.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06136418093461234465</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05935096006412854900'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>